So I kind of fell in love with my best friend. She is gay also so I was in luck there and I'm not one to hold in my feelings so I told her. She told me that she wasn't ready for a relationship but she had feelings for me too and that I should wait because when she was ready she wanted to be with me. I heard that she has recently been telling everyone else, even her other best friends she has a crush on a new person. she also has been acting real shady. She denys everything too. What should i do?

call her out on it. confront her and be like….listen i told you something really personal and you have gotten my hopes up. ive been giving you time like you asked but i have heard rumors of you being interested in someone else.” make sure you tell her that if she is interested in someone else that is on her but you would appreciate being told if it is true so you know whether to keep your feelings invested or to work on moving on :/ it seems like a tough spot that youre in and im sorry. if shes being shady chances are that its true and shes trying to spare your feelings. but you never know. just get the truth out of her